Who and Why M
Normally, my first response would be, why not? However, I realize I’m some stranger who is suddenly dolling out advice to others – you deserve an answer that doesn't scream smartass. ‘M comes from the phrase “Ask Them.” I loved how one can take that phrase two ways: asking a person and asking a question. The wordplay goes even further: my name. Usually, it’s “Ask ‘Em,” but my name doesn’t begin with ‘Em; luckily, it does begin with M, and “‘M” still has the same sound. So, why not? As far as questions go, I want to encourage people to ask me anything, from the mundane to the bizarre, even freaky, questions. Ask ‘M means ask me anything. (Trust me, I’ve read it all.)
Why the anonymity of just “‘M?” It seems shady. I’ve learned over the years that people tend to gravitate to others in their demographic. I’ve been a woman, and the majority of questions come from women. I’ve been a man, and all I get are men. I’ve been gay, transgender, and straight. I’ve practiced multiple religions, including one with no religion at all. It seems that for every identity I take on, the questions I get match who I am at that moment. I don’t want to be limited. I like people. I want everyone to join in, have a laugh, write to me, and ask me about life. I’ll get bored if it’s just a single demographic. I want to read and respond to those across the demographic dating pool.
Who am I beyond the name? I’m a journalist, columnist, life coach, and the person everyone in my life comes to for advice. I tend to be sensitive, but I also don’t sugarcoat things. If someone tries to be too gentle, the truth becomes muddled. I believe that. With those in my life or certain people, I go right to not sugarcoating things. I get personal because anything I have to offer is from lessons I’ve learned through my experiences, clients’ experiences, adjacent lessons, rigorous study, observation, and a degree in Psychology.
I know how to read people, even through what they write. Are they really wanting the answer to what they’re asking, or is it something deeper, even if it’s seemingly unrelated? People say I’m an intense person who should have been a lawyer or private investigator, even though I don’t think I’m that serious or serious at all. Apparently, I’m also very funny when I’m not trying to be. I hope this is enough for you to take my advice or at least read it and laugh. Laughing really is the best medicine, even when it’s morbid. Get ready for the ride; I’m excited to begin.